I need to get something off my chest.......

In November 2007, there was an article about how womens bust sizes have increased over the years. The average size is now a 36C, compared to a modest 34B a decade ago.
All you have to do is look around you to see that the younger generation is definately more fuller figured than the older generation. AND companies were now producing larger sizes to accommodate public demand.
Bearing this in mind I decided to have a fitting done in Debenhams, as I always felt I was wearing the wrong size. Wearing the wrong size for years resulted in scars where the straps sit on my shoulder, angry red marks on my ribs and back, and neck and back pain. Not forgetting the harrassment from boys at school and the jealousy of friends wishing they were bigger.

I was quite nervous at first as I thought I would have to reveal all to some stranger. But the woman serving was reassuring, motherly and made me feel comfortable. After discussing what I was looking for, she picked a few samples in my size to try on. I was pleased to see that not only was it comfortable but the fit was great. My only gripe was underwire ( I detest it!), which is needed to structure the bra and hold the shape.

Now that I knew my size, I felt it was time to start investing in some quality support for my chest.
As you know there are many different designs out there: full cup, demi cup, half cup, balconette, plunge, padded, t shirt, push up, nursing, maternity, multiway, strapless...the list is looooong!
I decided with buying some normal every day wear ones, and maybe one or two nice ones for special occasions.
So..... I had soem free time after my interview on Friday and decided to pop down Oxford street and check out the large department stores there. Due to their vast area, they can cater for all different sizes and designs and I would be spoiled for choice.
My first stop was M&S. I wondered around for a bit......checked some out. Found a nice design I liked, not too pricey. So, I decided to search teh shelf for my size. And I'm searching. And searching. And searching. Ok so they dont have my size. "Never mind", I thought,"I'll just try another design". So off I went having another look around, checking the shelves for my size as Im going along. It got to a point where I was contemplating whether I was losing my vision because I coudl nto find anythign in my size at all. And when I asked a staff member she said if it wasn't on the shelf then they don't have it as all stock was on shop floor.
So I decided to try another large store, Debenhams. I was measured in one of their branches and found a few so they must have some here right?
WRONG!
I could not find my size in anything and the advice from the sales assistant was to order online.
I done know about others, but I like to try before I buy!
Nevertheless, I decided that there are loads of sites on the web that cater for all sizes.... La senza, Figleaves, Bravissimo to name just a few. Surely I shouldn't have a problem finding my size?!
Result: After nearly four hours of searching, I still have not found anything! The bras are either ugly or maternity bras or out of stock. And I have wasted four hours of my life.

My message to bra stockists is this:
Seeing as women have evolved to have larger chest sizes, would it not be smarter to capitalise on this and stock greater designs and quantities of sizes that are needed rather than having a whole lingerie section dedicated to the A and B cups?????

Interviews

Ok just a quick update......
The two interviews went fine. I felt really positive about them. Unfortunately I didnt get the first one which is a shame because it meant commuting to Cambridge, which I was looking forward to because the scenery was AMAZING!
The second interview went well. We chit chatted a bit, and one of the interviewers used to live a few roads away from me. I'll know their decision next week.
Funnily enough I was called for another interview today.....the first part was a numeracy and literacy test. If I pass I get a call back. I know I will get one because those tests were too easy! I actually finished halfway through the allocated time and just sat there twiddling my thumbs!

I am deliberately not getting my hopes up....because whenever I do, I get shot down in flames, then crash and burn........God knows whats best for me and when the time is right I will find a good work place (inshallah!!)

Although I am asking you to please pray for me at this time as well. Allah may not answer my duas right now but he might answer yours!

In the words of Eminem..."Im back! tuh ner ner ner ner ner ner!"

A/S
Apologies for this extremely late posting. I have legit reasons for that!
I'm currently back at the hospital again. Temping. Which is good because it keeps my bank balance healthy! Anyways I have been doign the late shift at work (11am-7pm), which leaves me little time in the evenings to come online.
I have just one more week of work to go and then I've got hardcore revision to do for an exam in July. So again I might not be visible for a while. ALthough I will try and make a concerted effort to at least update my followers (all 2 of u!!).

Anyways just a quick update on whats been happening with me......
1) Spoke to parents about some one I would like to marry. Big guilt tripping lecture ensued from my mother. Accusations/allegations made against me were deeply shocking.
I have decided to cease communication with them in order to protect my tongue from saying something I may regret later. It might seem harsh, but I know myself and the minute I say whats in my heart is the day I wont be able to stay home anymore. So for now I am controlling my emotions and getting on with life.

2) I have 2 interviews this coming week. The posts are relatively low grade but I think we all need to start somewhere in life and for me if it is the bottom of the ladder then so be it. I am just glad someone has decided to give me an opportunity to present myself!

Anyhoo... ima clock off now and pray isha before going bed...got an early start in the morning!

A/S wr wb people!!!

The hunt is still on...

No luck with the Birmingham job.
They didnt even bother giving me any feedback even though I rang them! Oh well, Allah knows best.

I have applied for another 10 jobs over the last few weeks so INSHALLAH I will hear back from some of them. Its time to get this career started me thinks!
Please make du'a for me people!